You find that your marriage is not what it used to be. You begin to question everything that is happening, and try to weed through your ex-girlfriend revenge's words and actions with a fine tooth comb looking for something that will give you that definitive answer. You are constantly wondering what is wrong with your marriage, and yet you sit and wait hoping things will eventually work themselves out. Why kill yourself with this doubt? Why wake up everyday wondering if things will be better or just continue to get worse? Why not take some kind of action and put an end to your worries?

You probably do not have to be told that women are very complex. They are driven by their emotions more than any man, and yet they often keep those same emotions to themselves. The only time that you may actually get to understand how they are feeling is when everything comes to a boil and she explodes on you, telling everything that you have done wrong and why she feels that your marriage is over. By this time it is too late to make any changes, make any apologies, or try to understand why she feels the way that she does. It may already be too late and yet you sit there waiting for her to tell you so.

If you feel that there is something wrong with your marriage, then you need to act on it. Don't give her time to get trapped in her own head, looking for things to be angry about, searching for those little things she will use to reinforce her belief that your marriage is failing. There has obviously been a communication breakdown and it may be up to you to build it back up again. This may lead to the inevitable, the answer that you have been dreading, but at least you will not have to continue wondering whether or not your marriage is really over.

And then again you can continue to sit there. Knowing that something is wrong and not looking for the answers that could end up giving you closure. It may not be as bad as you are making it out to be or you may be giving her and her divorce attorney the time they need to build their case. Ultimately, you can try and ride it out, you can actually talk to her and get your answers, or you can simply wait until you get served with divorce papers.

The choice is yours, but if you find yourself in that position where nothing you do seems to make any difference, then you have no excuse but to take action. A divorce can easily become one of the most stressful periods of your life. But it doesn't have to be, simply because of the fact that you are not alone. At any given time there are millions of men all over the world who are going through the same headaches that you are. Check out The Men's Divorce Headquarters for more information, advice, and support.