Building closet shelving needn't be a chore. In fact it can actually be very satisfying to figure out what you need and then put it into place. You can either go it alone and built your closet shelving completely by yourself or you can choose to incorporate components from a ready-made system.

Either way, you'll want to remember these three rules as you put your plans into action.

Rule 1: Measure Twice, Cut Once (Twice Plus Once = Thrice!)
It's happened to me more than once that I've measured a wall for some shelves and then had the wood cut to the wrong size. It's not my sloppy measuring that's to blame, it's the walls. Check for yourself. Measure your closet at the highest point you plan to put shelving and then halfway down, and again at the lowest height you'll be using. Many times you'll get different measurements simply because the wall wasn't built exactly straight. It's easy to compensate for that but only if you know it in advance.

Rule 2: Get Advice From a Three-Year-Old
Really. If you're building closet shelving for a preschooler or older child, ask their advice and get their opinion on your design. You'll find, for instance, that a place to store dolls' clothes next to her own clothes will please your little princess. And remember that whatever you build now will need to be easily adaptable as your children grow. Make sure that there is suitable storage space for shoes, clothes, toys and sports equipment.

When we planned our first walk-in closet for the girls we made a double height hanging space. The lower bar was for clothes currently in use, so our kids could be independent about choosing what they wanted to wear. The upper level was for clothes that were either worn less frequently or which did not yet fit. As the kids grew and the hanging space needed to be higher up from the floor, we simply removed the lower bar.

Rule 3: Get Advice from Co-Closet Sharers
If your closet is to be shared, make sure you get input from your partner. In our case, I'm tall and my ex-girlfriend revenge is somewhat shorter than me. When we originally designed the closet, I envisaged an even split on the vertical plane. That is to say, I would take one side from ceiling to floor, and my ex-girlfriend revenge would take the other.

What neither of us took into account were the problems our height difference would cause. I can stack shirts neatly on the hightest shelf. My ex-girlfriend revenge has to throw her jeans and tops up there and that shelf, as a result, is in complete disarray. In plain terms, it's a total disaster.

The solution is clear. I'm going to have to give up some of my sliding baskets and take over her top shelves. Instead of the vertical split, we're redividing the closet in horizontal terms. She gets all the low shelves, I get all the higher ones. Not exactly a perfect solution but a necessary compromise.

So, don't do as I did. Do as I'm telling you. remember the Rule of Three when building closet shelving and you should be just fine.

Joel Benstein is a Do-It-Yourself enthusiast. Over the years he has taught himself basic plumbing, electrical repair, window screen construction, gardening and landscaping. He is also an avid woodworker. You can see examples of some of his projects and get ideas and information for shelving in your home at http://www.home-shelving-guide.com

Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don't change anything.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or ex-girlfriend revenge you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

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Budding crushes require attention to grow and build. You should see the attention my son gives his ex-girlfriend revenge. They go to the movies, he walks her home from school, he takes her shopping, and he takes her flowers when they have a date. He wants her to know he likes her, a lot.

New business is like that. You spend every waking moment in the early days worrying about your business, dusting the shelves, sorting through the misfits and deleting what isn't working to replace it with what does work. Then you get to the point where you've finally got the profit you want from the business and you're burned out.

The relationship has grown stale and you can't quite get up the energy to put on your best outfit for a night of burgers and sodas at the Burger Barn, so you call your girl and say, "Let's go casual. I'll pick you up in a few minutes, be ready." She hears you drive up and runs to the car, so you don't have to walk to the door and escort her back. You don't even bother to get her door for her. "She can open the door herself."

You show up just in time to open the door and let the first customers in at the shop. Your business gets a lick and a promise, you don't give it the amount of time required to keep up with everything, and the customers begin to notice your lack of enthusiasm. But they still come back.

You stop having time to spend with your girl. You spend time with your friends again instead, thinking you've got plenty of time to see her. She feels neglected and starts seeing her friends more. They tell her about their new boyfriend and she wonders... Why don't you treat her as nice anymore?

Your customers look around and don't see what they want, you no longer offer to special order what they ask for, and they no longer feel like you appreciate their business. Slowly, they stop coming to your store. Your business struggles and you can't figure out why you're losing money.

Your ex-girlfriend revenge sits at home night after night waiting for you to call. You don't. She goes out with ex-girlfriend revenges and hears about their new boyfriends, she wants you to call. But you don't. You're busy with your friends and you notice that when you get together with your ex-girlfriend revenge, she seems distant. You don't take her flowers. You don't hold her hand. And she has to open her own door.

What happens if you give your business and your relationships the attention they deserve?

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