There's always been this huge fuss about knowing what it is that women want. The truth however is that if you make reading body language your specialty, then you'll know what she's thinking and that's half the job done. It's like looking for gold without a map and then suddenly you find the map and learn to understand it, at that point you know the gold isn't too far off.

Whether you're taking her out on a first date, or she's your long- term ex-girlfriend revenge, reading body language will help you understand her frame of mind and know what to expect regardless of the situation at hand.

When reading body language, the first port of call is the eyes, someone once said : "the eyes are the window to the soul" and that person couldn't have said it better. A woman who looks at you with widely dilated or opened eyes is a woman who is seriously interested in you. The eyes also reflect anger when they are squinted or displeasure etc, so you know when she's angry or simply not in the mood for your antic. When she looks at you and looks away repeatedly, it could mean she seriously finds you attractive.

Other the eyes, the lips are a good indicator of body language. Especially when combined with the eyes and a smile. A woman who bites her lips when looking at you is interested in you and whatever it is you have to offer her. A woman who licks her lips when looking at you, well, well, well, if you can't decipher that, there's no use trying to understand everything else.

Hands are also a good indicator of body language. If a woman touches you unconsciously and with some frequency, it is a sign that she is attracted to you. The touching might be subtle and frequent such as touching your arm or your face or any other part of your body, maybe in order to buttress a point or simply out of the blue.

Understanding the feelings of a woman from reading body language is a simple art and if you take the time out to practice, you'll quickly become familiar with the various body signs. With this, understanding women and their whims and subtle messages will be a whole lot easier.

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