OK, so you say that you "want my ex-girlfriend revenge back" that's great, because really life is to short to live being down in the dumps when you are without that love of your life, that you chose to marry! I know, there was a time when I said "I want my ex-girlfriend revenge back" to...

Marriages break up for many different reasons, and the reasons for yours is something that only youcan answer, however they are generally based around the same things, one being a lack of understanding of the opposite sex, althoughwe feel the same, we do think very differently. Not understanding this does lead to rather significant communication breakdowns, and then disrespect...

The first rule of thumb to getting your ex-girlfriend revenge back is all about working on yourself, if you are making contact with your ex-girlfriend revenge, and trying to convince her to get back together, I recommend for now, you stop! The best thing is to create some thinking time, and also emotional repair time. Obviously when you go threw something like this, deep down we become emotional wrecks, it is timeto honestly reflect on the real reasons why you broke up, andhonestly work on the issues that effectyou,taking notes really helps to get things in prospectus, don't rush as this is veryimportant for when you attempt communication...

Secondly you need to concentrate on your positive well being, get yourself out and about having some fun, not so you can brag about it, but so you feel miles better. Go to the races, or a fishing trip or two, some hunting orwhatever it is that givesyou some excitement. Not only will this help you to feel miles better about life, it will show to others that you are positive and happy, and your ex-girlfriend revenge will feelthat you have moved on. Who knows once you have done this you may feel that you don't want your ex-girlfriend revenge back, and you were just holding on to her love for some moral sanity...

However becoming a happyman again is of up most importance to achieving your goal! The next step is tofocus on someeffective communication, and realizing this huge factor forwhy we get this wrong. That isthat there can be no blame in your breakup, but just reasons why, that need to be dealt with. The most dramatic communication fault that we have is using the word "you" instead of the word "I",in emotional debates. An example to this is, lets say you are having an argument and getangry, we begin a natural defense and will oftensay,"well youare making me damn angry", as apposed to sayingsimply, "I ambecoming ratherangry at the moment". Saying itdifferently does not have the same impact, as to when you sound like your blaming. When you are feeling that you areangry, you should immediatelytake time out,before you blow things out of proportion, and think of the reasonfor arguing...

Last but not least you need to be confident and positive, all I mean by this is to stop saying "I want myex-girlfriend revenge back" and start believing that you are going to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back. What we think does have huge impact as to what we get!

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