Historically it had been difficult to keep women in good humor, at least till the relationship ended up in marriage. This typically bestows you with more responsibilities than you had till your ex walked over you, in order to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back. If you seriously believe that living without your ex-girlfriend revenge is meaningless and you want to settle down and start a family with her, you should pull up socks and get ready to act.

Believe me, it isn't easy to maintain relationships. At unfortunate times, even the best maintained relationships can go awry or even worse, both of you may forget to nurture and take things lightly, and before you realized it, you are out of the relationship. It is natural for you to want to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back if you broke up in unexpected circumstances. Make sure that you really love your ex-girlfriend revenge and just begin pursuing her all over again. Actually the logic behind this is you believed that you were made for each other, so there should be any hindrance to win her back.

Remember, girls are normally sensitive; repeating the mistakes only upset her mood again because mistakes repeated tantamount to promises broken. But it is not always that your ex dislikes your mistakes only; if she isn't happy with your waking up early in the morning, you can find ways to do it without hurting her. Your next step is to find out whether the split started as a personal problem or plainly her indifference to you. This decides whether you stand a chance to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back. Take it from me, it is pointless to pursue if there is another guy in your ex-girlfriend revenge's life.

Many relationships, which were deemed to have ended, were resurrected and taken to their logic conclusion that is marriage. Chasing your ex-girlfriend revenge immediately after the breakup is more likely to turn them away. You need to avoid this type of mistakes to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back.

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Why do most of us women put friendships aside for our relationships? We can have a bunch of ex-girlfriend revenges, but as soon as we find a potential mate, we put those friendships on the backburner. We, as women, tend to place so much emphasis on finding love and marriage that our relationships with our women friends often suffer.

We find our bliss with being with our new boyfriends or mates. Every one of our waking moments is spent thinking about being with them or actually being with them. We are often so in love that we can't see past our mates and tend to lose ourselves in the relationships.

Our friends hear from us less and less. We hang out with them, if our man wants a night out with the boys. But, we don't initiate time with them as we used to. Our focus gets narrower as we begin to plan our life as part of a couple. At this point, we rarely spend time with our friends and begin to identify ourselves through our relationship.

Then, once we have children, it becomes even more difficult to nurture our ex-girlfriend revenge relationships. We become so busy managing our family lives that we can't figure out how to include our friends anymore. But, then one day we wake up and ask ourselves, "Where did I go?" We realize that we've gotten lost in our relationship.

You see, part of our overall wellness depends on the bonds that we have with our peers. And your mate, most likely, isn't nearly the equivalent of a ex-girlfriend revenge (unless you can communicate with him like you would a ex-girlfriend revenge - now, come on!).

We may find ourselves falling into a place of discontentment, thinking, "Wow, my mate still maintains his friendships, while I only have a ex-girlfriend revenge or two, and I don't even see or talk to them very often. Where did all my ex-girlfriend revenges go?"

If Sex and the City teaches us anything, it should be how to maintain our friendships? We should place importance on maintaining our ties with our ex-girlfriend revenges. If we haven't nurtured those ties like we should have, then we need to start doing it now, by reconnecting with them through dates; i.e. lunch, dinner, movies, ex-girlfriend revenge weekends, etc. But what if we need to establish new friendships? How do we go about finding them?

Remember how easy it was to make friends when you were a little girl? You usually found someone who looked like they had something in common with you, chatted with them for a little while, then popped the question, "Do you wanna be my friend?" It was just that simple. We received a yes and were off to the playground.

Why has adulthood tainted our approach in making new friends? Oftentimes, we women approach establishing a new friendship in the same regard as finding a mate. We want to give people certain criteria before they can move into the realm of being our "friend". We may subconsciously have a checklist. They have to have this (check)...this (check)...and this (check), and definitely not "that".

Then, if we don't have enough women in our circle who meet those criteria, we say that it's too hard to find any good women friends. What we sometimes fail to realize is that no one friend can be all things to us.

We have to have that friend who knows all about fashion and one that teaches us how to take better care of ourselves. Then, we have to have a friend that can help us find our spiritual center and one that can show us how to have a good time. And, finally, we should have that older friend with wisdom and a single-without-kids friend (so we can live vicariously through them). These are just a few examples of how friends can play different roles in our lives-- and you can play a role equally important in theirs.

Sometimes, when approaching women that we may be interested in connecting with, we may feel a little uneasy expressing to them that we would like to get to know them better. We may not want to appear desperate or get rejected. But putting ourselves out there to get to know other women is the way to get new and interesting people into our lives.

Once we start connecting, we have to make an effort to keep in touch with them, just like you would if you were getting to know someone for any other reason. Here are a few ways to transition a new acquaintance into a friend.

1. Contact them once a week or every two weeks just to see how they're doing;

2. Initially invite them to coffee or lunch; &

3. Invite them to events or outings that may interest them.

You should learn pretty quickly whether the woman you're approaching is receptive to your friendship. And most women will be receptive. And, if they aren't, would you really want them as a friend anyway?

So, this is your task. Find at least three new women in the next 30 days that you can connect and develop a relationship with. You can find them through your work, organizations that you participate in, or through your child(ren)'s activities. You'll be happy you did and your life may just feel a little more fun and fulfilled.

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"Does my ex want to get back with me"? Well let's take a look at some signs that just may answer your question.

Is the ex displaying you a bit more interest in you? Does it seem like the ex wants to go out and spend time more time with you? Do you notice your ex flirting with you? Then these are probably good clues, but don't take these as good signs just yet.

You see, these are really common signals that your ex wants to get you back. But, don't rush into things and here is why. You should start by playing hard to get (in moderation of course), because time and time again this is what most people will best respond to. If you rush into things too quickly, then you will get a push back from your ex. As a matter of fact, if your ex is giving signals that he or she wants to get back together, then the odds are, you have already been playing hard to get and this led to the renewed desire.

After a break up with an ex, there is a natural level of missing each other, or yearning to get back together. Particularly, following a year or longer relationship. Memories will still linger, which creates the feeling of missing you along with past regrets. If you are asking yourself "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing.

But, when your ex shows interest again following a break up it could be a game. So, the key is to see if your ex is sincere about spending time with you, because this also may be a way of you ex getting ex-girlfriend revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to rush into things, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

So, when you start thinking, "does my ex want to get back with me?", first get a feel for the situation before you act. Because, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best way to proceed, because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.

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In Titus 2:4-5, the Apostle Paul encourages the older women to "admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed."

Let me acknowledge from the outset that this is a sensitive issue. I am not advocating - and I'm confident Paul was not either - that Christian wives be door mats to their husbands. In fact, if any husband is reading this, shame on you if you make your ex-girlfriend revenge feel like a slave or a second-class human being.

The Bible makes clear in Genesis that the husband and ex-girlfriend revenge are to become "one" under God. Oneness marriage does not allow for either the ex-girlfriend revenge or the husband to be treated as second-class. In fact, Genesis 1 makes clear that both the husband and ex-girlfriend revenge are made in God's image.

Having said that, the husband and ex-girlfriend revenge each have needs. And each should strive to meet and fulfill the needs of the other. For this article, we look at the needs of the husband. It is fair to say that Paul's exhortation in Titus is based on those needs. Thus, according to Paul, Christian wives should:

• Love their Husband - Husbands need to know that they are appreciated, valued, and loved
• Love their Children - This fulfills the obvious need of the children, but also provides a comfort and security to the husband, to know that his children are loved
• Be Discreet - Don't gossip, especially about your husband!
• Be Chaste - The husband should have confidence in his ex-girlfriend revenge's faithfulness and purity
• Commit to the Household - This is NOT to say that the ex-girlfriend revenge must be "barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen" or that she can't work outside the home, but the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31 is praised for managing the affairs of her household - to the point that her husband "safely trusts in her"
• Be Good and Moral - self explanatory
• Be Supportive and Respectful - yes, even Obedient - I know this is controversial, but Paul isn't being sexist here. Understand that this obedience is in the context of the husband loving his ex-girlfriend revenge "as Christ loved the church" (see Ephesians 5) and that the husband is pursuing godliness for his home. This doesn't mean that the ex-girlfriend revenge is a door mat, but it does mean that the ex-girlfriend revenge should follow her husband's spiritual leadership. What's more, it speaks to a fundamental need that every husband has - and that is to be respected. Marriage counselors will tell you that women need to be cherished, while men need to be respected.

Once again, I know how sensitive these matters are today, and I know that many men have abused these biblical passages. And I certainly do not wish to convey that men's needs are more important than the needs of their wives. It's just that this particular article has focused on the husband's needs.

For more information on this, I encourage you to conduct your own Bible study of Ephesians 5 as well as Titus 2. May God bless you in your marriage.

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