Most of us wake up one day to find out that the marriage we have built is now crumbling before our very eyes. You have done your best possible to keep the marriage going but all efforts have failed and now you want to get a divorce fast. But, you are not familiar with the process. What do you do? You should know right away that the process of getting a divorce can be difficult if you do not do a thorough research before hand. We want to share with you 5 things you must know before getting a divorce.

Seek advice from a reputable divorce lawyer. It is good you seek out a reputable divorce lawyer to help you with some sound legal advice before getting a divorce. This is a wise step to take if you consider issues of assets and children.

Carry out a home and assets assessment. If you carry out a home and assets assessment, you will have an idea of what will be divided. You must write down everything facts about your assets and debts, and record the persons who can be witnesses.

Keep copies of relevant documents. Before you go about getting a divorce, you must keep copies of every relevant document handy. These documents must relate to the last three years of your marriage. The documents that should be handy include bank statements, mortgage payments bond and stock certificates, tax papers, etc. These documents will be required by your lawyer.

Get good hold of your emotions. You must be able to manage your emotions. Stay close to friends and family members that you trust and can help bolster your failing emotions. Know what you say to people around you. The wrong people may testify against you.

Finally, you must continue to stay with your spouse unless you are forced out or you fear for your safety. You should not say damaging words about your spouse to your children. Do not seek ex-girlfriend revenge because you never know. You may need your spouse again.

We all know that a divorce is not the best option as it may affect you and your children. Before you finally decide on getting a divorce you must consider how best to get your spouse to love you more again. Take advantage of the resources that will help you save your marriage today.

There's help for getting ex ex-girlfriend revenge back and it really is not that hard if you do it in the right way. When you have just broken up, or even long after a break up the emotions can be overwhelming to say the least. Loneliness, fear, desperation and depression. Your mind is pulling you in 100s of different directions all at the same time.

But the best thing you can do for getting your ex ex-girlfriend revenge back and the first thing you should do is to just stop and collect your thoughts and emotions. Until you can get your head on straight and think rationally you are only going to do more harm than good. Give yourself time to think of your next move.

Your next move if your want to get your ex ex-girlfriend revenge back is not to constantly call or try to convince them you love them. Even if you have taken the time to calm down as much as possible your emotions are still very unstable at this time so it's best not to be calling at all. Both you and your ex need time to cool down and think. Don't be sending text messages to your ex ex-girlfriend revenge. Don't be sending flowers to your ex ex-girlfriend revenge. Just don't contact your ex ex-girlfriend revenge at all.

One thing all this is going to do is make your ex ex-girlfriend revenge think and become curious and wonder what is going on. See if you act like it does not bother you then she is going to call just to see if you still care. But when she does call you got to be level headed and not jump at the chance, you got to be polite and nice but just tell them you need some time to think and to call you back in a few days and maybe you can talk about it then. Just remain calm through the first contact.

Remember your are going to try and get your ex to take you back by making them curious about what you feel and wanting to know what went wrong. You see a man or woman it does not matter the sex want what they can not have and when they believe they will lose you for good they are going to want you back. For getting ex ex-girlfriend revenge back you need to make a real good level headed plan and go with it.

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The execution of Jose Sebastian, a Peruvian Soldier of the Pacific War, 1879, in the Mantaro Valley of Peru, was to commence immediately for disobeying an order from his commanding officer. Sergeant Sebastian stood accused by this bright-eyed, young officer; Jose being in his 40s, the young officer in his early twenties, with small thin wrists, and ankles, slumped shoulders, and slightly balled. Jose, wide-eyed, broad shoulders, thick fingers, and a dark shadow, even after he shaved upon his face. He was a whisky drinking, fighting soldier, but he had a kind heart, and cool head.

There Jose stood, high upon on the wooden gallows, his body swollen, neck red, bruised, pale like face, almost ghostly, from the abuse the Commanding Officer thrust upon him prior to his execution, as if he was no higher in evolution than a hog; but Jose stood there as if, after the hanging he had another purpose, and with all his hate and anger inside of him, he just as soon be hung quickly, to get on with unfinished business-thus, he stood there silently staring into the air, a glance and smirk at his Commanding Officer now and then.

The Executioner stood behind the condemned soldier, as he readied the final preparations for the termination of his life.

A ladder had been placed alongside the gallows, and along with the Commanding Officer, stood several other soldiers, and civilians, in the back fields of Huancayo, that someday would be named, El Tambo.

The Executioner cited his grievance, and a little drunk, stumbled toward the lever which would open the trap door under the feet of the sergeant, and, as a result, be hung, until death subdued him.

There was a woman amongst the crowd, a witch of sorts, or so many of the soldiers and town-let folks, said, proclaimed she was, one whom was befriended by the Peruvian Soldier, one who had pulled her out of the ensuing battle, that was took place earlier that day, a kind of uprising in the small town of Concepcion, in its plaza area, by Chilean soldiers, near the cathedral, deep in this Andean Valley. Yes, of course, she was saved and did not forget this good deed the soldier did for her.

She ran to the ladder, started to climb up it as if to save the Sergeant, screaming and yelping, "let him be, free him, he is a devoted soldier..." and the Commanding Officer, pulled her back down by her skirts, tumbling her to the ground, and then picking her back up like a rag doll, and pushing her back toward the gathered crowed.

"Curse, I curse you," said the old witch, as she faded into the mass, "may the dead spirits take ex-girlfriend revenge upon you, may this soldier's spirit join them in eating and haunting your soul, may you die with no rest, lest you set this soldier free, whom disobeyed an order, and saved my life in doing so!"

The Commanding Officer, cast a glance to the Executioner, made a vague sign to him, and thereafter, he, the Executioner released the lever that would open the trap door, leading to the Sergeant's death. But the door seemed to be jammed for no reason. It was at this moment, this very second, the Commanding Officer saw three ghosts behind he condemned man, ludicrous he thought, but nonetheless, he saw what he saw, they were negotiating who would get to join in on the retribution of the reckoning of the soul, the dominating of his spirit within the Commanding Officers fleshly frame.

It all unfolded so quickly, it was almost over before it started, or so it appeared; then he noticed by the lever, a forth ghoul, holding the lever so it would not release the trap door, holding it tightly until the negotiations were over, he was not about to allow the Executioner to go about his business unhinged.

At that very moment, the Officer jumped onto the ladder, "Stop! Stop!" he exclaimed, "don't pull that lever...!"

But it was all too late, the Executioner had pushed his weight on it, and it went automatically: so easy he thought, in comparison to a moment ago.

It was not a pretty scene thereafter, but I will try to describe it: all four ghosts, along with the spirit of the soldier, entered the Officer, as he inhaled, it was like black smoke entering an unoccupied frame: these apparitions, entered as he inhaled the cool musty air, whispering to his mind, "Condemned, condemned, condemned!" And the Officer held his stomach, his head, his throat, yelping: "Get them out of me!"

Written in the afternoon, at the caf "Mia Mamma," in El Tambo, Huancayo, Peru, 9-7-2008

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Something bad just happened.

Something that you weren't expecting.

The unthinkable...you've BROKEN UP!

How could this happen? It's over. You're no longer together with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, ex-girlfriend revenge, (fill in the blank). Whether you've been together for a long time or a short time, it doesn't matter because you're not ready to call it quits on your relationship.

Times are tough. Questions are racing through your mind. Do they still have feelings for me? I have feelings for them. Do they want to get back together with me? I want to get back together with them. Why the break-up? Where did it all go wrong?

Women, do you find it hard to read men's feelings and emotions? Men, do you find it hard to read women's feelings and emotions? I know it's hard to know what they are "really" feeling but everyone has their own way of showing their feelings.

The big question remains...Do they still have feelings for me?

Here are 3 signs that it may not be completely over:

1. They show off in front of you. Now, I'm not talking about a circus act here, double dutch jump rope while juggling 6 flaming chainsaws. That's just plain crazy! There are many ways to show off. It could be something as simple as talking within ear shot of you about something that makes them look/sound good. They want to impress you. This is a good sign. Why try to impress if no feelings exist?

2. Look into their eyes. You can tell a lot about a person's feelings by looking into their eyes. So, the next time you talk to your ex, look into their eyes. Do you see the same glow in them when you two were together?

3. They just "happened to be in the area." The same area that you're in. Now if this isn't screaming for attention then I don't know what is. Why else would they be wherever you go? They want you to notice them. They still have feelings for you. They know your routine, where you shop, where you eat, where you hang with the "homies" or "girlfriends", etc.

So, does your ex still have feelings for you? Unfortunately, that's not the big important question you need to be asking yourself. "Do I want to get back together with my ex (fill in the blank)?" That's the question. If yes, then you'll need some help.

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Let's face it college is tough enough without dull classes of professors whose voice and pitch is clearly monotone. Not fast, not slow, no emotion and nowhere to go; there you are for hours in a pre-requisite class that you had to pay for and buy the book.

Where else, what other nation may I ask that you have to pay for your own torture? It's just not fair, yet, to graduate it is something you must bare and in all this the instructor could change, but he has tenure and doesn't care.

The only way to combat such a dilemma is to take careful notes and search his words for meaning, trivia or when his voice gets even the least bit animated, realize this is an important point, something he finds of interest and thus, it will surely be on the test. You must never confront an instructor and tell them that their class sucks, not until you have completed your degree; even then why bother, success in life is the best ex-girlfriend revenge.

The best advice that top students give for dealing with lousy professors is to find something in the topic that interests you personally and makes it fun and thus, keeps your mind emotionally involved causing you to want to learn more. This will assist you in increasing your curiosity and get you to seek this knowledge, not for the grade, but because it is for you, because you want to learn.

You can succeed in a dull college class and get an A, even with a tenured monotone professor that doesn't seem to care and could not make the subject interesting if his life depended on it. But, to succeed it must come from you. Please consider this.

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