Something bad just happened.

Something that you weren't expecting.

The unthinkable...you've BROKEN UP!

How could this happen? It's over. You're no longer together with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, ex-girlfriend revenge, (fill in the blank). Whether you've been together for a long time or a short time, it doesn't matter because you're not ready to call it quits on your relationship.

Times are tough. Questions are racing through your mind. Do they still have feelings for me? I have feelings for them. Do they want to get back together with me? I want to get back together with them. Why the break-up? Where did it all go wrong?

Women, do you find it hard to read men's feelings and emotions? Men, do you find it hard to read women's feelings and emotions? I know it's hard to know what they are "really" feeling but everyone has their own way of showing their feelings.

The big question remains...Do they still have feelings for me?

Here are 3 signs that it may not be completely over:

1. They show off in front of you. Now, I'm not talking about a circus act here, double dutch jump rope while juggling 6 flaming chainsaws. That's just plain crazy! There are many ways to show off. It could be something as simple as talking within ear shot of you about something that makes them look/sound good. They want to impress you. This is a good sign. Why try to impress if no feelings exist?

2. Look into their eyes. You can tell a lot about a person's feelings by looking into their eyes. So, the next time you talk to your ex, look into their eyes. Do you see the same glow in them when you two were together?

3. They just "happened to be in the area." The same area that you're in. Now if this isn't screaming for attention then I don't know what is. Why else would they be wherever you go? They want you to notice them. They still have feelings for you. They know your routine, where you shop, where you eat, where you hang with the "homies" or "girlfriends", etc.

So, does your ex still have feelings for you? Unfortunately, that's not the big important question you need to be asking yourself. "Do I want to get back together with my ex (fill in the blank)?" That's the question. If yes, then you'll need some help.

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