Most of us wake up one day to find out that the marriage we have built is now crumbling before our very eyes. You have done your best possible to keep the marriage going but all efforts have failed and now you want to get a divorce fast. But, you are not familiar with the process. What do you do? You should know right away that the process of getting a divorce can be difficult if you do not do a thorough research before hand. We want to share with you 5 things you must know before getting a divorce.

Seek advice from a reputable divorce lawyer. It is good you seek out a reputable divorce lawyer to help you with some sound legal advice before getting a divorce. This is a wise step to take if you consider issues of assets and children.

Carry out a home and assets assessment. If you carry out a home and assets assessment, you will have an idea of what will be divided. You must write down everything facts about your assets and debts, and record the persons who can be witnesses.

Keep copies of relevant documents. Before you go about getting a divorce, you must keep copies of every relevant document handy. These documents must relate to the last three years of your marriage. The documents that should be handy include bank statements, mortgage payments bond and stock certificates, tax papers, etc. These documents will be required by your lawyer.

Get good hold of your emotions. You must be able to manage your emotions. Stay close to friends and family members that you trust and can help bolster your failing emotions. Know what you say to people around you. The wrong people may testify against you.

Finally, you must continue to stay with your spouse unless you are forced out or you fear for your safety. You should not say damaging words about your spouse to your children. Do not seek ex-girlfriend revenge because you never know. You may need your spouse again.

We all know that a divorce is not the best option as it may affect you and your children. Before you finally decide on getting a divorce you must consider how best to get your spouse to love you more again. Take advantage of the resources that will help you save your marriage today.