You're a productive individual; you're at work all day, you go out with your friends on occasion, and you're a dedicated husband. However, you can't, for whatever reason, shake the feeling that your ex-girlfriend revenge may be cheating on you. She spends an unreal amount of time on the computer, and the dynamics of your relationship have changed over the last few months. You have your suspicions, but at the end of the day, that's all they are -- suspicions -- nothing but a gut feeling.

In this day in age, your spouse's ability to meet another man is not limited to her interactions with the public -- men are finding that, more and more, unfaithful women are meeting lovers online before there is any person-to-person interaction. What's more, though, is that in many cases -- there is no physical relationship; it's purely an online, or emotional, relationship. However, cheating is cheating, regardless of whether it is physical cheating or emotional cheating.

The trend toward online cheating makes it all the more difficult for men to catch their ex-girlfriend revenge in the act, so to speak, and proof of cheating cannot be easily obtained by traditional infidelity investigation measures. Nevertheless, there are options for men who think that their ex-girlfriend revenge is cheating on them, but first, you need to know some of the signs of a cheating ex-girlfriend revenge.

Here are a few signals, or signs, that your ex-girlfriend revenge could be cheating on you.
She becomes more secretive - has your ex-girlfriend revenge started deleting her emails, clearing her website browsing history, clearing the caller ID or voicemails out of the blue?

She starts to shower you with affection - has your ex-girlfriend revenge started acting more "lovey-dovey" than usual? Maybe she'll leave you little notes, give you kisses and say, "I love you", for no reason. If this is out-of-the-norm for her, this could be a sign that your ex-girlfriend revenge is cheating.

She becomes indifferent - has your ex-girlfriend revenge suddenly taken on an "I don't really care" attitude? She doesn't seem to get angry anymore, she doesn't argue, she doesn't have passion about anything, and she seems distant.

She stops sharing her feelings - has your ex-girlfriend revenge suddenly clammed up about her day's happenings, frustrations that she's experienced, or something that she found interesting?

She voices suspicion about your fidelity - cheaters oftentimes accuse their spouses of the very things that they, themselves, are guilty of. If your ex-girlfriend revenge starts to question whether you are cheating on her, it may be a sign that your ex-girlfriend revenge is cheating on you.

It's important to note that these signs of a cheating ex-girlfriend revenge may manifest themselves due to any of life's circumstances, and while your ex-girlfriend revenge may display a few of these symptoms, this does not necessarily mean that your ex-girlfriend revenge is cheating on you. Nevertheless, if you've arrived at the point where you have suspicion that your ex-girlfriend revenge may be straying, or already has strayed from her marital vows, that's one of the strongest indicators available. In these cases, you need to put your mind at ease -- one way or another.

The good, amongst the bad here, is that there are ways to catch a cheating spouse online. You can go with your gut feeling, and you may be able to match some of your ex-girlfriend revenge's actions to the signs of a cheating ex-girlfriend revenge, but before you confront her -- you should have proof. Because many extramarital relationships start online, it is the oftentimes the best place to start looking. Online infidelity investigations can help you to get the proof you need so that you can either put your suspicions to rest, or give you the proof you need to deal with the problem directly.

Ed Opperman, president of Opperman Investigations Inc is an expert in Internet Infidelity Investigations and Computer and Cell Phone Forensics. If you need help with an infidelity investigation visit http://www.emailrevealer.com